Showing posts with label events. Show all posts
Showing posts with label events. Show all posts

Monday, 8 September 2025

Sunday Sunset Soiree

Just got back from London. I have blog posts to write about this. Museums and observatories mostly filled the 2 days. Took loads of pics and vids (including a photo with a celebrity). Not sure how I’m going to upload them as the Blogger platform isn’t letting me embed photos unless they’re through a social media platform, which is why I’ve been doing that a lot. I think it’s because of my Palaeolithic age PC. 

Anyway, I’ve booked off this week to sort it out. 

Thursday Evening: Northern Quarter bar Tariff & Dale host Margs X Margs, an after-work treat serving margarita cocktails and margarita pizza for £5 each, from 5-8pm. I have uploaded a meetup for this, but it’s exactly the time that most people can’t make it (which is probably why the bar ran it then, and why as of yet there are no RSVPs). 

Another early doors event: Menagerie hosts Sunset Soiree on Sunday evening from 6pm. The event promises an all black dresscode, a chance to enjoy great music, dress in style, games, live music and connect. Manchester Social Meetup Group have shared this, so there’s a group of people ready to join. 10 of us have signed up. I’m dusting off the tuxedo.

Wednesday, 3 September 2025

Philosophy Night in Hinterland

 

There’s being a pretentious twat, and there’s going to a vegan bar when you’re not even vegan, to a philosophy night when you’ve never studied philosophy, listening to attendees talk about *checks notes* Epistemology (a branch of philosophy that investigates the origin, nature, methods, and limits of human knowledge) and hermeneutics (the science of the interpretation of biblical scriptures). 

But that’s what I tried out on Wednesday 7th August, in Hinterland. The Philosophy Night happens monthly, and I’d been meaning to try it out for something different. 

The group split off into different tables, where in small clusters we got into discussion. A lot of it went over my head, in all honesty. I find philosophy as a subject to be largely irrelevant considering the main minds that formed the basis of it (Aristotle, Socrates etc.) are long dead, and Freud (who also got a mention) blew most of their theses out of the water. We have cold, hard science now to establish the facts about human thought. And it’s developing every day. Philosophy, well, that isn’t. 

That said, without philosophy, there’d be no psychology, the science that has in recent years revolutionised my life. I can cook, organise my house, plan events, work efficiently and ‘read’ people a little bit thanks to psychology, so it’s interesting to investigate its origins. 

Shame the event was mostly blokes.

Wednesday, 20 August 2025

Journaling – the Stories we Tell Ourselves

“You don’t need to call yourself a journaler,” the organiser tells us - “the emphasis is reflective writing.”  

Hinterland is a CIC – Community Interest Company, and tonight - 13th August - is the second Journaling Club ran by the vegan restaurant. The main writing prompts revolved around the theme of The Stories we Tell Ourselves. 

Prompt: ‘I came here because…’  

I came here because the last group was really interesting. I got good practice with journaling and met some cool people. I’m always looking for something different to try out and I was in Manchester anyway after a restaurant trip with family. How do I make this interesting for the blog post? And why the fuck did I wear black on a hot day like this? Why not shorts? What a ridiculous decision. This is, however, a departure from the norm of cocktail bars, steak houses and the sports centre. I can’t stay in watching Viking dramas all week.    

The organiser asked us where our ideas for journaling may come from, and what elements get filtered out or chosen either for writing or are just the thoughts we may have about ourselves. We came up with suggests as a group and I copied this from the flipchart:

Second journaling event at Hinterland Manchester, 13/8/25, this time on the theme 'The Stories we Tell Ourselves.'

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— Matt Tuckey 🇬🇧 (@matttuckey.bsky.social) August 17, 2025 at 10:00 AM

The next prompt: ‘I sometimes assume I’m the kind of person who…’ 

Isn’t smart enough to do what other people do. A lot of my colleagues do all sorts of work that I wouldn’t have a clue how to do. But then I remind myself that a lot of what other people do, they can because they can remember the processes, not because they have some innate ability that I lack. I have to remind myself that a psychologist I saw when I was 9 years old told me I had the reading age of a 14-year-old. That I got writing published in a local paper when I was 15. That I edited pre-recorded radio shows that went out on air when I was 22/23.  

The facilitator here (at Hinterland) has asked us, ‘what’s underneath this?’ Mistakes I make due to memory are embarrassing. When you don’t get diagnosed til you’re 27, your character gets framed during a period when you don’t have any understanding of why you can’t do what you need to. 

The gong is tapped, indicating the end of the writing time. 

Next we’re given 4 prompts on the board to choose from:  

If I allowed myself to let go of the story… 

Short story: Once Upon a Time… 

Letter: Dear… 

Myth: There once lived someone brilliant… 

Ideally, I’d have come up with something for ideas 2 3 or 4, but it just wasn’t happening, so I did what the NHS repeatedly tells me not to and ran around my own head, settling for the first idea.  

If I allowed myself to let go of the story, I’d probably spend the rest of my days approaching every attractive woman I saw at all times. The story I hold is that I’m not going to be good enough. It’s a lifelong problem stemming from primary school, or mainly secondary. It’s such a stupid reason to live an unhappy life. I think I’d probably find the right person without the fear. I’ve done it so many times, though – broken through the fear and met people I’ve been enamoured with, only to find they’re from Lincoln, or they’re not that bothered. 

The gong hits again. The organiser flips the chart. The new discussion points:  

What does it mean to be part of a tribe or community? 

What’s your role in the community? 

How can I feel the feeling under the story? 

How can I feel the story differently? 

Dwelling in the feeling 

Be with it. 

After a chat on this, the session ends here. 

Hinterland’s events offer up something different – an alcohol free environment, vegan food, engaging discussion, a good mix of people.

Monday, 18 August 2025

Hip Hop Club Night / Jeremy Corbyn in Oldham

Club night Saturday anyone? New club Continental opened some weeks ago on South King St, off Deansgate. Think hip hop, bottle shows and potentially a few celebs. Guestlist pending. UPDATE: Guestlist full. It's not happening.

Manchester Nightlife is NOT headed there Saturday.

This weekend Manchester goes Italian for Festa Italiana, a celebration of culture, food and heritage. I might take a look time allowing. Love a pizza. Hardly Viking, but intriguing. 

This week Oldham welcomes Jeremy Corbyn, leader of newly-fored Your Party. See Eventbrite for details. Thursday, Empire Suite, Chadderton, 5:30pm. 

On the blog I’ve got a piece on a journaling event and another on travel passes.

Monday, 11 August 2025

Try Dave's Hot Chicken with Us

This week: 

2 new meetup groups have opened up: Manchester Activity Group and Manchester Motivation Group. Both pretty self-explanatory. 

Journal Club Wednesday at Hinterland. The last one (the first one) was really interesting. There’s a meetup on Manc Mates. Discussion and practice on the art of journaling, on the theme of Freedom according to Eventbrite. That’s the same theme as last time. Dunno if that’s a mistake. 

Thursday night: Poetry night again at Hinterland. I have nothing to read out. I just can’t think of anything that would work. So I’ll probably miss it, but if anyone else likes a good poem... 

Saturday Night: Manchester Nightlife is out once again this time to new food outlet Dave’s Hot Chicken in the Printworks. There are a million fried chicken outlets. Will this be better? It’s certainly newer. Come find out. We might do a few drinks around there after.

 

Later that night British UFC fighter Lerone Murphy takes on Aaron Pico in UFC 319. I’d like to watch it. It’s not easy to find places that do. 

Also, on the blog, a review of the last year and some goals for the next one.

Monday, 4 August 2025

Running out of ideas for Manchester Nightlife.

Most of what I wanted to do I’ve done. Bar crawls like Deansgate and Spinningfields. Peter St. Big food halls like Mackie Mayor and Diecast. I really want more house music nights but these are increasingly hard to come by. I managed a night in Off the Square and another in Exhibition, which were both great nights, but it’s finding them running that’s the difficulty. A lot are one-offs. Or they’re monthly things that die off after a few months. 

I do want to focus on 2 things: food and house music. Some attendees were keen for another Diecast meetup. Suits me. I really want to get to Eastern Bloc (running all year) or Warehouse Project (September to Christmas) for good house DJs. I just haven’t thought it through, and as a result I haven’t uploaded anything for this coming Saturday. 

There are, however, 2 events before then. Thursday night: Vegan alcohol-free bar Hinterland runs their monthly philosophy evening, offering 'a stimulating exploration of Wisdom and Imagination in Community.' I’m making a concerted effort to trying other people’s events, not just running my own, and this one intrigues me. I know nothing about philosophy, but the chances are people there will be able to hold a conversation and will grasp the concept of turning up on time and following instructions. 

Let's find out with Manchester Psychology Social Group

Friday night: a WeRoad – large, generic but generally friendly meetup – happens in Box on Deansgate, so I may make an appearance. You might. 

You might also take a look at the new Dave’s Hot Chicken, a food outlet opened this week in The Printworks. It’s only a stonethrow away from Box. Kinda.

So yeah, if you have any ideas for meetups that suit Manchester Nightlife, hit me up.

Sunday, 3 August 2025

43

Had a birthday. Ate food with family. 

 

 

Ran a meetup to Diecast. Ate more food, a giant pizza this time. Got drunk. Had more attendees than I think I’ve ever had at an event. There were 25 on the list at one point. Most of them arrived. Came home early via bus. Great music, great people. No fallouts or anything. May run more to bigger venues like this - they seem to be popular.

Saturday night in Diecast Manchester. Cuatro, Bodeguita, pina colada, bbq chicken pizza.

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— Matt Tuckey 🇬🇧 (@matttuckey.bsky.social) August 3, 2025 at 7:25 PM

Dancers in Diecast last night

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— Matt Tuckey 🇬🇧 (@matttuckey.bsky.social) August 3, 2025 at 7:26 PM

Went to a family barbecue. 

Continued chugging through this Viking project. Encroaching on some old workout PBs. Now out of cereal and porridge. 

Surpassed 1.4 million hits on the blog. Got more hits in July – 70 thousand – than I’ve had in any other month.

Monday, 28 July 2025

43 this week.

Expect 2 blog posts about goals achieved, or not, or to be achieved.  

Viking project going well. Good food, workouts, and Netflix shows. 

Went to Diecast last Saturday, a food and drink hall with a nightclub vibe, in an old factory on the outskirts of Manchester. Think rusted metal, brickwork and vine leaves. House music in one room, live cover band in the other. Lots of small independent eateries scattered about. I figured it would be well worth running a meetup there, so if you want to join the 3 of us as it stands, get involved this coming Saturday. Manchester Nightlife will be there from 7pm. Come eat, drink, dance, talk. 

New Meetup Manchester Activity Group opened up this week, offering a range of fun stuff. Ice skating was already ran. Worth keeping an eye on. I’m certainly keen to try more things than just endless bars. 

Recharge and Reset also opens, ‘designed to help you slow down, recharge your mind and body, and discover simple tools to boost your everyday wellness.’ 

As some meetups open, others close. Manchester Clubbing has vanished. If that was your thing… there’s still Manchester Nightlife. 

Power is a State of Mind passed 1.4 million views last week. Whether you love me or hate me, thanks for reading.

Sunday, 27 July 2025

Death Café

The gong sounds on stage to draw our attention. It’s not the start of an old Arthur J Rank film, but the opening moments of tonight’s Death Café in Northern Quarter’s Hinterland

The vegan alcohol-free restaurant on Turner St has an eclectic event roster but tonight – Wednesday 23rd July –their monthly Death Cafe offers an opportunity to have a frank, open and realistic conversation about death. The organiser tells the aim is to increase awareness of the nature of death and to strip back its taboo nature. We’re not trying to get to a conclusion, the organiser tells us. Nor is it for profit. 

Jon Underwood set up the first Death Café in London in 2011, based on similar concepts in France and Switzerland. He’d previously worked with ex-offenders and had studied Buddhism. From thereon, the concept has spread. 

The small round tables in Hinterland are perfect for groups of 4 or so to gather and discuss the subject, recounting tales of lost loved ones, hospitals, the grieving process and differences in this across different cultures (the group is popular with people from all over the world). I’m also informed I look like BBC’s Steve Backshall, which is a first. Not sure how I feel about that. He’s about 10 years older than me, but he’s shredded, so... 

A really interesting, welcoming and positive discussion, frequently more about life and its brevity than death itself. I understand Death Café to be a monthly event, so keep your eye on Hinterland for their events roster.

Monday, 21 July 2025

Death Cafe This Week

Wednesday night in Hinterland Northern Quarter Manchester. Death Cafe.

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— Matt Tuckey 🇬🇧 (@matttuckey.bsky.social) July 21, 2025 at 7:32 AM

What is a Death Cafe? Ticket site Eventbrite says ‘Join us for a unique evening of open and honest conversations about death and dying.’ 

Very left field, but I’m looking for different things to do. Vegan alcohol free bar Hinterland has a varied events calendar, and their Death Cafe is a monthly inclusion to that. It’s running this Wednesday, but tickets are already sold out. I had put up a Meetup for this, on Manchester Psychology Social Group but there’s no point RSVPing if you can’t get a ticket. I managed to get mine. All of Hinterland’s events sell out fast.  

Comic Con Manchester runs this weekend too. I’m not there as the line-up didn’t have anything for me, but there are still some 12:30pm and weekend tickets available. 

Saturday night: Manchester Nightlife meetup is back out again, this time to new upmarket bar Kitten on Deansgate Square. First time there for me. Expect cocktails, tall ceilings and smart décor.

Friday, 18 July 2025

Hinterland Poets

Thursday 10th July – I’m in Hinterland, the vegan alcohol-free bar in The Northern Quarter listening to a poem about kangaroos and masculinity. They're not two images that would normally be mashed together, but that is the beauty of creative writing – it’s allowed. If you can think it, it can go on the page. 

Tonight we’re in attendance for Hinterland Poets, an open-mic night of poetry. Dave Stone and Dave Viney present the night, and on entry I add my name to the ‘poetry fish’ – a cardboard cut-out fish – and take a seat. After an intro (Viney tells us of his work in prisons, teaching poetry), the open mic slots begin. 

I’m fourth out of around 20 poets, and I finally get around to reading this poem Junkie, that I wrote in 2019. I liked other people’s poems, and they seemed to like mine. I’ve done tons of writing over the years but I can rarely think of anything that would work in poem form – a lot of what I write is event write-ups and psychology musings, normally with a lot of multimedia add in to tell more of the story, so putting things into rhyme wouldn’t really work. 

But I’m going to try. I’m making a conscious effort to do other things with my social time than hang around in overpriced cocktail bars. So poetry might work. 

The next Hinterland Poets is on 14th August.

Wednesday, 16 July 2025

Journaling - What is Freedom?

After running a few meetups in Hinterland last year, I found that the vegan cafe could no longer accommodate us due to their own events. Their roster started to stack up with philosophy and poetry nights, all things that, in fairness, I’d be tempted to try out. I’ve been trying to find things to do that aren’t just going to bars and sampling cocktails, so an alcohol-free bar like Hinterland made a good start. 

On Wednesday 2nd July they hosted a journaling class organised by Fi, who had chosen the theme for the evening:  

What is freedom, really? 

Fi encouraged us to free-write, in prose or poetry, what we thought of the word ‘freedom,’ and encouraged us to speak from our own perspective. We were given a few minutes to put together a piece on the subject. 

Here’s mine: 

The hardest thing about freedom is that you don’t realise how valuable it is until it’s taken away from you. Lack of money or time, or other obligations like family commitments can take over your life. But when they don’t, your freedom can allow you opportunities to try new experiences. Freedom, however, has its dark side. Too much freedom and not enough commitment, can bring out other frustrations.

2/7/25 Journaling event in Hinterland Manchester. #creativewednesday

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— Matt Tuckey 🇬🇧 (@matttuckey.bsky.social) July 16, 2025 at 10:00 AM

Fi asked us for our thoughts on ‘Freedom,’ or lack thereof, and she added them to the board. 

 • Self judgement / expectations 

 • Holding contradictions 

 • Staying open 

• Allowing things to be messy / unresolved 

Another prompt with a 10-minute free-writing exercise came next, on the title: A part of me that longs for freedom is… 

I splurged this out onto the page: 

A part of me that already is free, but I’m afraid to take that step. I could more, solo. I’ve never gone abroad alone. 

 I have memory difficulties. The restriction here is that new places are hard for me to get around. I rely on my phone a lot. New places require organisation. I’d be screwed without Google Maps. That said, I have managed it in other British cities live Liverpool and Newcastle. It could be done. Is a foreign country really going to be that different? It’s a big step, but I’m tempted to test that freedom and plan out a slow adventure. I’d be free from other people’s restrictions, other plans and priorities. If I want to try that club, that museum, I can. 

Do I dare, though? 

So, yes. Automatic writing rarely results in anything other than drivel, but hey, it’s honest drivel. Isn’t that why you read my stuff? 

And Goddamn I need to practice Teeline. Trying to decipher my own shorthand after a few days was like trying to read the Zodiac’s letters, only I’d written it myself. 

I think someone read out a poem at this point, then we dove into a new prompt:  

The Place that I Find Freedom 

The pen upon the page, bringing factual or fiction 

whatever you can think of, without any restriction 

not getting any younger, traverse across the land, 

take the opportunity, embrace with both hands 

order from the chaos, all you need’s a pen 

That’s as far as I got before the timer went. 

Enjoyable group. Good mix of people. Not too pretentious, great venue (I’ve never been to a bad event in Hinterland) and well ran.

Monday, 30 June 2025

Hacienda Classica Afterparty This Weekend

 

The last meetup I ran was a success with a good group of lads joining up for food and drinks in the sun. A good contrast to previous nights out. There’s honestly a part of me wondering how long I want to keep running these meetups, with the cost, the no-shows, the fallouts, the backstabbing, the difficult people using meetup as a crutch for a social life when they clearly can’t form those friendships any other way. Am I including myself here? I don’t know. 

I realise on the one hand these #prospectivemondays posts are an attempt to draw people in and encourage people to try events and meet new people themselves, and thus complaining about the flakiness and the unnecessary arguments kinda works against that, but I blog about my life, and disappointments are unfortunately part of it. It’s a lot of money to keep being let down. 

Well, I’ve got a handful of ideas left. Then I’ll make a decision. 

One of those ideas: taking other people’s events and running meetups to coincide with them, encouraging the meetup groups to take part in something that otherwise wouldn’t be listed there. I’ve ran a few meetups previously in Hinterland, the vegan cafe in The Northern Quarter. Hinterland run a lot of events themselves, and I’ve been quite tempted to get involved, but their events book up quickly as it’s a small venue. I’ve managed to get a free ticket to a journaling class that they’re running on Wednesday. The theme is ‘Freedom.’ How free are we, as people? 

I have put up a meetup for this on Manchester Psychology Social Group, but I’m the only attendee there. There are still tickets on Eventbrite. Wednesday night, 7pm. 

Saturday night: Manchester Nightlife is out again, this time to The Albert Hall for Hacienda Classical Afterparty. On the decks: Todd Terry, Felix Da Housecat and Greame Park. Also expect a live PA from Alison Limerick of Where Love Lives fame. I’ve missed several attempts to see her perform this over the years! 

In other news, I’ve managed to surpass 1 and a third million hits on the blog, partly after an immense and somewhat inexplicable spike in the last month. More hits have come in in the last month than in any other month since I’ve ran the blog.

Sunday, 29 June 2025

Bongo's Bingo / Hong Thai / Carol Vordeman

I realise this is a long shot, but if you’ve ever wanted to win a Ninja Air Fryer to the sounds of DJ Sammy’s Fly on the Wings of Love, there is as it happens such an opportunity in Manchester’s Albert Hall, a 115-year-old chapel in the city centre. The occasion is of course Bongo’s Bingo, an absurd game where the prizes range from a Luke Littler darts set, a giant fluffy unicorn, an electric piano, some Coco Pops (to be thrown around the venue with willing abandon) and a double ended dildo. Towards the end of the games, the prizes get a little more useful, with the last game winner landing a solid £1500. I was at the Saturday daytime event yesterday with a mate from Manchester Nightlife meetup group. Great fun. No wins for us sadly. Albert Halls upper decks get HOT in the June sun. 

 

 

After this I ran a meetup with Manchester Nightlife to Hong Thai, a well-regarded Thai / Chinese fusion restaurant in Ancoats. Good chat with new members, great spicy food and was close to Counter House for cocktails. The whole thing wrapped up early enough to get the bus back.

Khao Soi in Hong Thai in Ancoats. Spicy broth. Then a Spicy Margarita in Counter House in Cutting Room Square. Good evening with new #meetup members.

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— Matt Tuckey 🇬🇧 (@matttuckey.bsky.social) June 29, 2025 at 8:31 PM

 

Lastly, I got an Instagram comment from Countdown's Carol Vordeman. I made her laugh. Go look. Too complicated to explain. 

Monday, 23 June 2025

Come Get Hong Thai Food in Ancoats!

On the blog soon: a psychology book review, a piece on how to train your mind to narrow your focus – as explained to my by the NHS – and a recipe review. 

Friday night: GetSocial, a new group to rival WeRoad, are holding a premium event in Banyan Spinningfields. £10 tickets, but it does get you a discount card for drinks in several venues and works at future events too. I’m not there as there is one person going who turned out to be a bit of a twat, and another who should have been at my meetup on Saturday but didn’t bother showing. 

Saturday night: Manchester Nightlife trip to Hong Thai, a renowned Chinese / Thai restaurant on Oldham St Ancoats. I hear good things over instagram. Time to give it a shot. After that, Cutting Room Square is a stonesthrow away, so there’s plenty of choice for bars.

Sunday, 22 June 2025

Capri Beach Club

Getting back into the swing of running meetups after a few weeks off. 

Manchester has a temporary cocktail bar in Shambles Square called Capri Beach Club, a kind of Balearic open air venue with house music and a gelato stall. I ran an early-doors meetup with Manchester Nightlife

5 attendees were listed. 2 of us showed. It’s getting exhausting putting on meetups and not getting the attendees. If people don’t respond to the events, then it’s not a popular idea in the first place, so perhaps that would be reflective of my decision making. But if I keep finding that people say they’ll come, and then don’t… surely that’s reflective of other people’s organisational skills? I’ve commented on the meetup page asking people to only RSVP if they’re going to actually turn up. 

It’s always been an issue on Meetup – you never know how many are actually going to show. I have a few more ideas for meetups to run, but after I’ve exhausted them, I’m likely to step down as organiser and stop paying that subscription. It’s a lot of money for little reward and a lot of abuse. 

There was no abuse last night, but other attendees have verbally abused me to my face and criticised me over the internet because they didn’t like the bar, or they didn’t like the topics of conversation, if I understand correctly. Weird. Well, you can’t please everyone. 

Capri was a fine choice, though – music, cocktails, table service and weather were on point.

Monday, 2 June 2025

Meetups are BACK

 

After a few weeks away from the Meetup events scene, I’m uploading a few here and there. 

I’m starting with some simple Happy Hour drinks in The Northern Quarter’s Pen and Pencil, with the Manchester Nightlife group. Friday night from 9. Good deals on spirits, Prosecco and beers. Maybe we look around a few other bars too. 

I’m planning to run some meetups with Manchester Psychology Social Group too over the coming weeks, although when and where is still a struggle. I need somewhere open in the evenings, serving affordable healthy food, not too dear and not too loud, with no alcohol that can take a table of perhaps 6 people. Our previous venue Hinterland fit the bill perfectly, but they have a big events roster on and they no longer have the room. That said, a lot of those events are quite psychology – related, so I might run some meetups to those. 

On the blog: 7 Tenerife posts (1 for each day due to mass amounts of multimedia that I can’t be bothered choosing from, so you can have loads), more psychology posts – recipes and a dieting project - and several roundups.