Matt Tuckey is a writer from Oldham, England. He covers celebrities, night life, Manchester, fitness, creative writing, social media, psychology and events. Some of this may, in some way, help others. Or maybe it'll just entertain you for a while.
Hella behind with blogging at the moment. Expect part 2 of the Comic
Con writeup. There’s also a pharmapsychological experiment that I
conducted during the Manchester Day Parade last Sunday. I haven’t
even written that yet. I won a competition – more details to come.
I went to see a music producer / DJ in a house music club Friday.
Great night. Then The Commonwealth Games closed last night, and with
it this absurd fitness project. Again,
there’s a write-up of that to come.
I recently turned
44. Going to try to round a few people up and have a few scoops this
Saturday night, starting in favourite Flok and trying a few bars around
Stevenson Square. I’ve told a few friends, and I’ve put up a
meetup with Manchester Nightlife too. Sign up, come along.
“My favourite film is Commando,” says Jamie Bigg, Giant from Gladiators. “Bill Duke is just over there! I’m a big Superman and Batman fan.”
Giant is the first guest on stage at Comic Con Manchester. It’s the 25th July and Bowlers Exhibition Centre is packed with actors (including Duke who played Cook in Commando and Mac in Predator), cosplayers, movie fans and comic stalls. Compare SoCalVal kicks off the proceedings asking Bigg about his journey into the Gladiators reboot of the 90s TV show.
JB: I always was a big guy. I watched Gladiators back in the day. To play the character being a superhero.
SCV: What are the differences with the new Gladiators?
JB: I’m a big guy. We see that in the old show but Gladiators now are more 360. They’re more all round athletes. When I was a bodybuilder I was eating 10k calories per day. To maintain a physique you need to stretch, stay all-round healthy.
SCV: What’s your favourite cheat meal?
JB: Large Papa Johns Pepperoni Passion with barbecue sauce, and for dessert apple crumble with custard.
SCV: Who do you get on with?
JB: Legend.
The mic is passed out to the audience, where a kid asks about his favourite Gladiators event. Giant’s a big Duel fan.
JB: It’s a high pressure game. I don’t like heights, but due to the fear factor, the adrenaline meaning you have to jump off safely. Why would I do that?!
Another child asks, what’s the worst day you ever had?
JB: When they brought in Duel! You have to fall off backwards!
CHILD AQ: What’s your favourite thing about wrestling?
JB: The music. Shawn Michaels walking out. The special moves, and how exciting they were. I love Hulk Hogan.
SCV: Why not present your own travel show? Is there anywhere you’ve not been?
JB: I’d love to see Thailand.
Next comes a question about social media.
JB: It can take over your life. You wake up and reach for your phone. I’m trying to be productive with it, spending time with family instead. Something in moderation is good, but it can take over your whole life.
Hmm. Try being a blogger, Jamie.
SCV: Gladiators is a comfort show for many. What’s yours?
JB: Suits. I’m in season 8. Also Game of Thrones, and I loved (Superman spin-off) Smallville.
SCV: We’ve had the cast here.
JB: Chris Reeves is the all time favourite Superman. And Henry Cavill…. I’m a straight guy, but what a gorgeous man.
AQ: Wolf was always my favourite Gladiator. Who was yours?
JB: Wolf is 70 now! He’s doing great for his age. Hunter was my favourite, physically, and he was a nice guy.
SCV: Any actors that inspire you?
JB: Arnie. Not just his films and bodybuilding, but in terms of believing you can do something.
SCV: What’s next?
JB: I’d love to be here tomorrow but I’m at an event in Stoke. I’ve got more travel; I’ve never been to Amsterdam. I’m 41 next month; it’s gonna be great. There’ll be things with wrestling; I’m going to speak on mental health - I have a speech I’m passionate about. I’m gonna use social media to promote men’s mental health and prevent suicide.
SCV: What do you want to accomplish?
JB: I’d try reality TV like I’m a Celebrity. I want a lot of challenges like lack of food.
Carrie Henn is next to the stage: Newt from 1986’s Aliens.
CH: 40 years later, it’s great to see fans. I don’t watch Aliens back. I don’t like to do that. I was 9 when filming, 10 when it came out.
SCV: How did the part come to you?
CH: Dad was in the Air Force. They couldn’t find a person in the US. Dad was over in the UK and had no clue what what the part entailed. It just fell into my lap. I had no clue whatsoever how big it would be. Then a few years ago a guy invited me to a con in London.
SCV: What was the release like? Did people spot you?
CH: I moved towns just as the film came out. Most girls at 10 aren’t always nice.
SCV: Any pearls of wisdom for getting into entertainment?
CH: Not really.
Okaaaay…
SCV: I was looking at your Saturn Award. Congratulations! How did that come about?
CH: I got my Saturn Award in ‘87. James Cameron was there. He’s hard but amazing.
The mic goes out to the audience.
AQ: Do you ever get spotted now you’re a teacher?
CH: Sometimes people bring stuff to sign, but not that often. I’m just their teacher.
AQ: What was acting like with Sigourney Weaver?
CH: I had Velcro shoes, and she kept taking them off. She just cut the shoes off in the end.
SCV: What franchises speak to you at Comic Con?
CH: I don’t want to have to think when I watch TV. Rom-coms. My kids are fans of Harry Potter and Star Wars.
AQ: Who’s you’re favourite marine? (in Aliens)
CH: Hudson. He saved me a few times.
SCV: What’s your favourite romcom?
CH: Clueless, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, that’s what I watched on the first date I went on with my husband.
SCV: Any places you’d like to go?
CH: England. I lived here from ages 2-10. My mom’s British. But I’m a Liverpool fan. They’re my team.
SCV: Did you enjoy the World Cup?
CH: We did have a good time: the Scottish drinking us dry was fun. (Henn resides in Atwater California.) There was one guy, an American, who started a GoFundMe so he could stay.
SCV: Are you a ranch fan? People were taking it home!
CH: It’s okay. The chocolate isn’t the same. I love it here.
SCV: What’s next?
CH: We broke up beginning of June. I’m taking my daughter back to Florida. When I filmed Aliens I was in 4th grade. It’s the only school photo I don’t have. Now I teach that grade.
From Rukmini Iyer’s India Express book: Bengali Style Mustard Fish with Crushed Peas and Spiced Sweet Potato.
I had to improvise a few ingredients: neither Aldi, Asda nor Tesco had panko breadcrumbs, so I made some with regular flour, or at least I attempted to. They all clumped together. I should have just bought pre-sliced bread and blended it. Also I only had kefir yoghurt, not the regular stuff. Don’t know what difference this would have made. I’m also lacking a potato masher, so crushed all that up haphazardly with the back of a wooden spoon.
The whole thing took and hour and 53 minutes.
Interesting, but way to mustard-heavy for me. Murders the nose.
Commonwealth Games are in full swing. We get to see parts on Channel 5, and a little more on BBC Alba. England are in 2nd place on the medals table behind Australia. I’m working through this Commonwealth Games Fit project I set for myself.
Manchester Day Parade took place yesterday, a celebration of the city by a consortium of different local social groups. More on each of these soon.
Greater Manchester elects a new mayor on Thursday. Looks like I’ll be going for Greens, with Geraldine Goggins on the ballot. I’m disgusted in Labour’s Zionism, their refusal to accept the ICC’s ruling that Israel is conducting a genocide in Gaza, and their apparent lack of understanding of their own rules on Personal Independence Payment. It’s not an out-of-work benefit. Labour seem unaware of this.
Greens, on the other hand, want to properly tax the billionaires, fund the NHS and social care system, build more affordable homes, fund proper mental health support, increase the minimum wage, stop the gig economy and stop corporations from dumping literal shit in our rivers, to name a few reforms. So they’ve got my vote.
Friday night: Manchester club Joshua Brooks welcomes house music producer Miguel Campbell for Full Circle, a night of deep house. His 2011 hit Something Special is still a banger.
New Batman spinoff Clayface has finally released their trailer.
Clayface was partly filmed in Castlefield Manchester, and also Stockport Centre. Look carefully and you’ll notice Stockport Plaza.
Back in September last year, the production of the movie used Castlefield Manchester as a filming location. I took a look.
Sunday night: The Commonwealth Games Closing Ceremony takes place, around 6pm (the exact details aren’t readily available). I’m working through this absurd Commonwealth Games Fit project, with an unrealistic goal of losing nearly 13 kilos. I wouldn’t count on it happening at present.
On the 7th this month I started using Edclub’s Typing Jungle, an educational package for computer use that includes a typing program. I’ve just had a good bash at this before the Commonwealth Games started.
I very steadily worked through the lessons but made the mistake of not making an account. This meant every time I closed the browser, I lost my place and started from lesson 1 again. There is a placement test that you can take to see which level you should start at, but no matter how much I progressed through the month, that test threw me back in at level 1 again. I’ve gone over the basics a LOT.
The plan was to beat my PB of 47 Words Per Minute.
Pretty much straight away, the program showed my speed as reaching 72WPM. I think this was a fluke, or a glitch in the system. I dunno. But I kept tapping through it to see if I could get anything like that again. I worked the lessons a step at a time, learning the basics and which specific keys each finger goes to. I felt like I was getting better, not looking at the keyboard as much. But my speeds were nowhere near as good, hitting 40 usually.
The lessons are interspersed with fun, colourful typing games to keep you motivated and to test your ability.
The only other issue was the placement of the backslash key, which is pretty much at the opposite end of my keyboard from where the program suggested.
Eventually it occurred to me to make an account, meaning I could save my progress and carry on where I left off… right as I hit the deadline.
Well, I gave it a shot. There are a thousand other things I want to do now. Hopefully writing up future events will take a little less time.
During the pandemic I read The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene, a researcher by trade who’d worked in the publishing industry. The book itself was, as you’d expect, very well researched. Full of real-life historical examples from all over the world and from a wide range of time periods, 48 Laws puts forward this series of rules for attaining power. It describes how to enact them, and what pitfalls await when you transgress them.
I started to notice these laws had been applied by managers over the years. I figured Greene might be onto something. He may not be a psychologist / sociologist himself, but he seems well-versed in the area.
I whipped through it in a few weeks.
Greene may not be a business owner, nor a psychologist, but he’s a good researcher with incredible worldwide historical knowledge. He also seems to understand people, one of the key skills that can move you forward in any sphere in life.
Delving into his bibliography, I noticed he’d written The Art of Seduction. I really wanted to see what his take was in particular. How strong was Greene’s game?
I eventually bought it in January 2025. This book was the same size as The 48 Laws – around 450 big pages with small text – and I hammered through the first one really quickly, so surely…
This time, the book started to feel like a huge slog instead of a rollercoaster of human behaviour. The level of detail seemed so intense and so broad, that it was difficult to imagine how to apply the stories to my own life: especially when the examples range from Prince Albert courting Queen Victoria in 1800s England, and Casanova rampaging through 1700s Europe. How does this apply to a 40-something clumsy bachelor stumbling through overpriced cocktail bars in contemporary Manchester? I really had to work hard to pluck out the specific advice being dished out within the stories.
This gets even harder when Greene uses biblical passages and passes them off as fact.
Also, Greene questionably celebrates some eyebrow-raising individuals. Revered seducer Casanova courted a 17-year-old when he was 21. (But then, look who’s talking. Didn’t I?) A lengthy passage celebrates renowned seducer and actor Erroll Flynn, who in 1942 was tried for the statutory rape of a 17-year-old and a 15-year-old. (He was acquitted, but still.) Along with cocaine addiction, malaria and tuberculosis, Flynn was much more of a mess than his heroic Hollywood image would suggest.
The examples tend to come from people who are either fictional or already dead. There are no interviews with living, contemporary renowned seducers. There are no references to Neil Strauss (author of The Game) or David DeAngelo (of Double Your Dating) or any other big names in that field.
An interview with someone like Billy Bob Thornton – successful actor but regular looking bloke – would have been highly insightful, seeing as he bagged Tomb Raider herself Angelina Jolie, and had her visibly hanging off his every word.
Smattered through the weighty book, there are moments of genuine insight about keeping things light-hearted, keeping an environment close knit, avoiding hesitancy or familiarity, and essentially avoiding fretting over yourself by focussing your attention on the other person. There are nuggets that are genuinely helpful, I guess to both genders.
Essentially, though, the book is lacking that modern-day, real-world relevance. How can I use this smorgasbord of advice when I’m stood in a swanky cocktail bar in Manchester talking to a semi drunk girl who I can hardly hear over the bass? How exactly do you ‘use a spiritual lure’ in a journaling event in a vegan restaurant? There are no breakdowns of different environments – the workplace, the club, the gym or other sports groups, the high street – all of which, I gather, need different approaches.
In essence, the book reads more like a history of seduction attempts – fictional and factual - rather than an actual how-to guide. A lot of hard work (I spent about a year and a half reading it) for little payoff.
Glasgow once again host the Commonwealth Games. This time, the BBC have only got limited rights, and apparently are only being shown on their Scottish Alba service. BBC say ‘Alba is to screen nightly live coverage and highlights throughout the Glasgow 2026 Commonwealth Games.’ Great if you’re in Scotland. Looks like we can watch it on iPlayer. Not sure there’ll be subtitles over the Gaelic, though.
Thankfully Channel 5 is to show 2 hours of highlights.
Sounds pretty shit, as a lot of what makes the games good is watching people progress through the heats to the finals, in some unusual sports that we don’t normally get to see.
My plan was to beat as many chin-up and dip records as I could while watching the games, and once again try to get my weight down to hit the revered 72.2kg target. I’m currently 84.9. Sometimes I’m free during the day, sometimes at night. But if all we’re getting is highlights, it’s rarely going to be on when I’m ready to watch. When it is, it’s not going to take long to watch through that. So…
I’ve got 3 films and a series left on my Netflix watchlist, then I’m going to cancel. I’ve got a ton of Blu-Rays and DVDs to get through. Skipping, chin-ups, dips and a few gym classes, plus a good clean diet, should sharpen me up.
By the end of the closing ceremony in the evening of 2nd August, I plan to be fitter physically and mentally, and I expect England will be taking home a ton of metalware too.
