Tuesday, 17 April 2018

Support Groups; Reality TV Arses


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Week before last: talked to Marlie from Ibiza Weekender about her arse, and then almost met her at the Freda Funk launch but I didn't recognise her. Next time!

It seems the success of men's support group Andy's Man Club is spawning a few similar franchises- Nexus Art Cafe hosts a talking therapy group of sorts between 1pm and 6pm on Mondays. 'The Auricle' drops into the Northern Quarter diner on a weekly basis. I'm in work, so I can't check this out, but I'd be curious if anyone could fill me in a bit. Tweet me- we can follow each other so we can private message the details. I'd be keen to hear more.

Another support group has recently formed and is advertising over Meetup. Talk About It Mate offers 'a friendly non-judgemental environment in which to meet others who have experienced different issues.' Their next meetup is in Fallowfield, which is a little far for me, but their previous sessions have been in the city-centre pub The Waterhouse. I'm not sure how private a session would be in a Wetherspoons, and I'm not sure personally about the combination of discussion of depression and the availability of alcohol, but time will tell.

Sunday, 15 April 2018

Freda Funk Launch in Celeb Hotspot Menagerie

 

Sunday 8th April: Charlotte Dawson, daughter of comedy legend Les, star of Ex on the Beach, Celebs Go Dating and Celebrity Ghost Hunt, launched her new 'string to her bow,' the FredaFunk clothing range in Manchester's Menagerie.

On arriving I bumped into local celeb blogger Georgia Broadbent, who covers celebs in much the same way as I do. Keep your eye on her blog as she's a rising talent in Manchester's blogging scene. She recognised a fair few more faces than I did!

Before going in I grabbed a selfie with Marcel Sommerville from Blazin' Squad and more recently Love Island, and his girlfriend- also from Love Island- Gabby Allen. Cool couple.


I also bumped into Tyne-Lexi Clarson, who I though was one of the nicest in Love Island S3. Surprised she didn't stay on the show longer.


£15 on the door. Once inside I caught up with the lovely Charlotte herself.


Here's Nadia Essex, expert from Celebs Go Dating.


Shorter than I expected, but really nice. I mentioned I'd applied to the show and not heard back- her advice was to keep applying.

Matt Sarsfield from Swinton Lions Rugby, Charlotte's boyfriend. Decent bloke. I mentioned we both know Luke Ambler, former pro rugby player and founder of Andy's Man Club.


Chet Johnson from Ex on the Beach, and Cally Jane Beech, From Love Island S1.


I mentioned to Chet I'd applied for a few shows here and there. He suggested, like Nadia, that I keep applying. He explained he got a lot out of the experience of being on his show.

Charlotte jumped on the mic to welcome us all. While she talked, a strange smell permeated the air.

Sorry,” said some stunning young girl next to me. “That was me.”

Astounding honesty.

Charlotte welcomed Paige Young onto the stage, who gave a quick speech and performed one of her songs. Before she dropped the mic she ended with, “Let's get drunk!”


Menagerie was perfect for a fashion show with its elevated catwalk and cutting-edge décor.


Alas, I was driving, so I couldn't take Charlotte's advice. I still got chatting to a few people after rolling in solo thanks to a welcoming atmosphere.

Check out the M.E.N writeup here.

Saturday, 14 April 2018

HMRC have got their debt collectors onto me.

HMRC still want £416 in overpaid tax credits. I have asked them repeatedly to explain to my why they overpaid me- I eventually found out from Citizen's Advice.

In order to be awarded Working Tax Credits, you need to be working 30 hours per week- unless you are in receipt of the Daily Living component of either DLA or PIP. Under DLA I was receiving both Daily Living and Mobility, so despite only working 22.5 hours, I was still eligible for WTC. I had applied for WTC a long time before receiving DLA- 2008, but I was denied due to working too few hours. Nobody explained the above to me until late 2010, though, even when Pure Innovations took over the Work Choice scheme and I started to get what I was entitled to.

My DLA was stopped in December 16, in preparation for the unconfirmed move over to PIP. I applied for PIP. During this fiasco, HMRC continued to pay me WTC. I assumed that there was no problem with this as the two were separate benefits.

Eventually, after PIP was awarded, my Working Tax Credits were stopped, and I assumed this was because they were about to move me over to Universal Credit. It was not.

At the same time, HMRC claimed I owed them £416 in overpaid tax credits. They did not explain this. I phoned them numerous times to give me a reason for this demand, and each operative I spoke to told me my tax credits were 'under review.'

Months later, similar letters came through- I still owed them the money and I still couldn't get back onto Tax Credits. No explanation.

Eventually I contacted Welfare Rights. It emerged that, because I was not moved over from DLA to PIP automatically, that break signified a change in circumstances and my WTC were due to be stopped. Some weeks after I was only awarded the Mobility component, WTC payments eventually stopped. This took some time for HMRC to realise THEIR mistake, though, so they sent me a letter demanding this money without explaining the above.

Rather than paying the money, I've spent my time trying to get to the bottom of this and asking my employer for more hours. (I'm waiting to hear back from HR.)

HMRC are still paying me a monthly block payment of £88, the weekly £22 Mobility PIP component. This, plus my part-time wage, isn't enough to get by on. £416, my apparent debt, is about half of my monthly wage.

This week I received a letter from Advantis Debt Collection Centre.

'This is your opportunity to put things right,' it says. If you don't contact us or pay what you owe now HM Revenue and Customs has instructed us to pass your debt to debt collection agents for recovery. Yours faithfully.'

Faithfully. Hmm.

My question to HMRC: What is the point in continually paying ME benefits when, at the same time, and due to YOUR error, I owe YOU money? Why not stop paying me until the debt is balanced, or deduct a certain amount each month until the overpayment is rectified over a 12-month period? Why blame me, a learning disabled man, for your financial error? And how interesting that it takes so much effort to get these benefits awarded- even when there's solid proof of a disability- but you're so quick to start demanding the money back and threatening me with BAILIFFS?!

Meanwhile, I have asked my employer for additional hours. If I work over 25, I can claim WTC as a normal applicant, regardless of disability. Now is apparently the time, with the ongoing restructure, that it might happen, if ever, but of course I have not heard back. I have also asked Social Services for support in relation to finances, but, again, probably due to being employed in a public sector desk job, and because I speak and write eloquently, the idea that I might genuinely need their support with this situation will most likely be incomprehensible to them. They may think my application is some kind of administrative error.

And with the money the Tories have saved from cutting disabled people's benefits, what is Mrs May doing? Mental health training in schools? Providing homeless shelters? Rebuilding the country's hacked-down police presence? Training more nurses? No: Syrian air strikes.

Wednesday, 11 April 2018

Itinerary



NaPoWriMo's day 3 prompt is a list poem. This was written on the 3rd April, the day before the Commonwealth Games 2018 opened.

Moving teams, same office
Booking off Bank Holidays
Following up a job inquiry
The opening of the Commonwealth Games
(England will be top of the board again, get over it Australia)
An employment advisor meeting
A Parkrun in Yorkshire, marshalled by a support group
Can't make it to see UFC223...
Johanna V Rose II will be another war
It's gonna have to be a Youtube job for me because...
Writers Connect Sunday lunchtime
Reviewing this poem. Meta!
No parties planned. Poor performance.

Sunday, 8 April 2018

Did you leave Bluecoat in 1998?


If you did, you probably recognise my unusual surname and we're probably connected on social media. If not, you might not be aware that The Blue Coat School's 1998 20-year school reunion is planned for Saturday 21st. It's taking place at Smokies Park Best Western Hotel in Oldham at 7pm. The organisers of the reunion will NOT be taking money on the night, so buy your ticket soon. The ticket deadline is TOMORROW.

Check out the Facebook event.

(Also, I'm likely to be watching Khan v Lo Greco somewhere after the reunion, so tweet me about that if you're nearby.

Tuesday, 3 April 2018

Printworks Doormen: Cowards

This footage appeared in my Facebook feed yesterday. I was in Warrington on Sunday night- I was not at the scene of this video. Violent content. Viewer discretion advised.


Yet another reason not to go to the failing Printworks: terrible music, chav bars, chavs, and psycho doormen. I asked The Printworks for a comment via Twitter over 24 hours ago: No response.

Monday, 2 April 2018

NaPoWriMo 2018



National Poetry Writing Month comes around once again. The principal: write 30 poems in 30 days. Obviously I'm a little late. Easter parties.

Like last year, I'll be interpreting the guidance loosely- I'll try to write a poem every day, but I'll be stockpiling them and taking them to Writer's Connect, my feedback group. Then, once a week, I'll upload them here as part of my long-neglected #creativewednesday trend.

I'll also be listening to tons of hip hop, the likes of Eminem, Immortal Technique and Lowkey, to gain inspiration, and then trying my hand at writing a few rap verses of my own. I've been collating ideas for months now.

Here we go...